I’ve decided to build a business. There is no turning back.
Okay, there is – but I’d like to pretend now that there isn’t. That’s how I know to do scary things that I want to do. While I was in the army, there was a 5metre-high platform that cadets were supposed to jump from as some Confidence Jump ceremony thingy…
I was very much not a cadet. We were just the camp guards at the Officer Cadet School.

But there was a day we went to jump it anyway. And the only way I stepped off that platform (no one else was up there with me so I could have easily went back down the stairs) was telling myself I couldn’t turn back. So I jumped into the water. It was the longest 10 seconds of my life…and I forgot to close my legs.
I quit half my job in May. I could have asked for more than 50% of my salary still but I was thankful enough for the security of a regular income + getting back 2.5 days of my week to myself. 5 months in and a small part of me wonders whether burning the pier would have forced me to learn how to swim faster…
…until I remember that while I do want to get into the water, I love breathing space and hate drowning. I want to do it on my own terms. I want to take that step off the platform.
That’s one of the things I’d like to remind myself as I get serious about building a business. Writing this has two aims:
- I want to feel like it’s been decided. There is no if, maybe or possibly. I am building a business.
- & if I’m just scared I’ll lose myself along the way (as many have – a legit fear), here’s a reminder on what really matters to me.
But first, a definition.
defining a business
I listened to Josh Kaufman, author of The Personal MBA on the Indie Hackers podcast episode here & I like how he approached this…because it’s like a more systematic, productive & ambitious version of how I tried to learn what a business actually was.
I learned what a business was by getting thrown in the water, drowning and learning how to swim – for the sake of everyone else in there with me, and for the sake of our mission.
But also, I read a lot. Like a lot, a lot – borrowing 193 books in 2 years a lot. The more stressed I was about a problem or something new we were facing, the more obsessed I’d be reading about how someone else thought about it.

Josh was just as obsessed. The good part is that – like a human ChatGPT (what…) – he absorbed all the information from reading hundreds of business book and distilled it into an overall framework and guide to business. You can read it more about it here: https://personalmba.com/manifesto/
For the purposes of this post, I just wanna extract a definition I like from his five parts of every business:
“A business is a repeatable process that makes money. Everything else is a hobby.”
Paul Freet, serial entrepreneur and commercialization expert
So that’s number one.
10 things the business I build will do (or won’t)
- Make money (don’t lose money)
- Have documented, repeatable processes
- Focus on 1 & 2 from the very start
- Involve only people I genuinely am curious about working with – whether team, collaborators or customers (and avoid those who I do not, before it’s too late and I have to pretend that I do)
- Have the successful money-making process be linked directly to the skills I’m good at and enjoy using (and minimising dependence on stuff I’m weak at or hate)
- Be a fun vehicle to constantly be learning something new
- NOT be a physical product (there are enough things in the world)
- NOT chase endless growth & constantly rising numbers (the upper limit is getting a salary of 10k/month. I do not think I’ll need more. Get there, and it’s time to set other, better goals)
- NOT rely on fundraising or grants to be sustainable
- NOT hire anyone except for projects (no, I do not want to have to make payroll)
That’s it then. Nothing left to do but start. See you in the water.

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